Katherine Levine once told a story of doing therapy in a way that I believe illustrates the postmodern spirit. She described her client as a young rape victim who one day asked her therapist, "Am I still a virgin? Now that I have been raped?" And Katherine, moved by the client's sadness spoke from her heart saying, "Oh, I think you're still a virgin!" and she talked for a while explaining why she thought this. Then she noticed that the girl was not listening, and Katherine said, "But that's not what you think, is it?" And the girl shook her head "no" and began talking about what she thought.